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Is It Ever Really Starting Over?
Maybe we're not meant to start over. Maybe we're meant to become more of ourselves.
7 hrs ago
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Heather Harris
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The Luxury of Knowing Yourself
On the privilege of asking who you really are, and what it means to finally answer honestly
Aug 13
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Heather Harris
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The Sentence I Wouldn’t Say
Knowing it’s over isn’t the same as letting it be over
Aug 6
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Heather Harris
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July 2026
When the Weight is Gone and Something Still Feels Wrong
What nobody tells you about arriving at the life you worked for
Jul 30
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Heather Harris
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The Uncomfortable Middle
I graduated high school with no idea what to do with myself.
Jul 23
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Heather Harris
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Why Willpower Was Never the Problem
I clean the cat box every day without thinking about it.
Jul 16
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Heather Harris
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The Twenty Minutes I Never Did
And the ten years I never had to think about
Jul 9
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Heather Harris
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Start Here
New to The Permanist, this is the best place to begin.
Jul 5
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Heather Harris
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The Vision Was Never the Problem
What closes the distance between your vision and your behavior
Jul 2
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Heather Harris
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June 2026
Hiding in the Gap
The safety of not being seen yet
Jun 25
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Heather Harris
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It Was Never Just About the Food
Why losing weight didn't undo what came before it
Jun 23
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Heather Harris
Identity Lag
On the moments that quietly replace the old map
Jun 18
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Heather Harris
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